Category: Brand Communications and Optics Strategist Blog

Written posts from Loren Weisman on brand communications, messaging and optics. Discovery and blueprinting before building, messaging before marketing, and engaging before selling. Where he stands on artificial intelligence, on claims that cannot be checked, on the difference between motivation and information, and on what a business owes the people reading it. Each post is dated and published under his own name.

  • Flipping the script. A fresher approach to marketing communication

    Flipping the script. A fresher approach to marketing communication Flipping the script. A fresher approach to marketing communication In the fast-paced world of startups and entrepreneurship, effective marketing communication can be crucial for success. However, the traditional “yell, tell, and sell” approach is becoming increasingly ineffective. I touch on this in a recent YouTube short: Stop telling me what to do… and your audience too.
    No one can create your brand for you. No one can create your story for you. To be authentically created, this has to be with you.

    No one can create your brand for you. No one can create your story for you. To be authentically created, this has to be with you.

    The problem I see with pushy marketing
    Many businesses, especially startups, seem to fall into the trap of aggressive marketing techniques. They bombard their audience with forceful phrases like “you need to,” “you should,” and “you have to.” This approach, while common, often backfires too. It can alienate potential customers and damage brand-audience relationships. With the over saturation of it as well as the fly by night self proclaimed experts saying “you have to do it this way”, it seems to have grown even worse.
    A psychology angle to the persuasion in marketing Understanding the psychology of persuasion mixed with an understanding of perceptions is one road to improving brand messaging. As of late, it appears more commonly that consumers are slowly being drawn to engage with brands that respect their autonomy and offer value without pressure. This insight to me is key in the invitational marketing approach.
    Building genuine and gentle connections with customers I believe in a shift towards customer-centric marketing strategies. By focusing on building genuine and gentle connections with customers, businesses can create a more loyal and engaged audience that may be exhausted from the pressure pushes elsewhere. This idea aligns with the growing trend of empathetic marketing techniques that consider the consumer and their broader experience over just pushing as hard as possible at every one.
    Soft sell vs. hard sell. Which works better? The debate between soft sell and hard sell marketing has been ongoing. However, soft sell techniques are growing in their chances to lead to better long-term results, especially in building brand trust through authentic communication that steers away from excessive hype and unsubstantiated claims.
    A few alternatives to pushy marketing Instead of using the more dominant and forceful language, consider adopting some of the non-aggressive marketing techniques. These can include these two ideas: Creating inviting and engaging marketing content that stewards over just the sell. Using subtle marketing tactics that ask, invite and do not force.
    Implementing effective call-to-action alternatives. For example… Instead of using the “don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe” Consider instead… if you want to learn more, if you enjoyed the content or here is where you can get more information. This is not passive. It is a chance to connect a new viewer in a less forced way.
    Consider standing out by being transparent, authentic and professional with a clear message of what you expect from your clients and customers when it comes to the services that require work from them.

    Consider standing out by being transparent, authentic and professional with a clear message of what you expect from your clients and customers when it comes to the services that require work from them.

    Improving brand-audience relationships
    By flipping the script on the traditional ask, businesses can significantly improve their brand-audience relationships. This approach involves: Using a softer, kinder tone. One you would want to have used on you. Considering how people are treated online by so many other sellers. Differentiating your brand with a non-forceful ask that illuminates what you have or are about over pushing.
    Shifting to the A over the THE approach.  Try You are a this or a that… Instead of claiming to be the this or the that. This humble approach can also help fight potential claim issues that could stack your website or SEO.
    Conversion Optimization Without Pressure Contrary to popular belief, conversion optimization doesn’t have to involve pressure tactics. By focusing on creating valuable content and building trust, businesses can achieve higher conversion rates organically. Yes, it is not viral, but it can end up being a lot more true than hype numbers of some of the competitors that have little to show for actual conversions. The Power of Invitational Marketing Invitational marketing is about creating an environment where customers feel welcomed and valued, not pressured or manipulated. This approach can lead to stronger brand loyalty and more sustainable business growth. And this is not some buzz phrase. Claiming you invite but not applying the invitational tactics, only contradicts you and your brand. Writing Non-Pushy Marketing Copy Learning how to write non-pushy marketing copy is essential for this new approach. It involves: Using inclusive, humble language Focusing on benefits rather than demands Allowing customers to make their own decisions
    Conclusion: A shifting time for marketing communication and messaging Many people have grown tired of forceful marketing tactics. By adopting a more inviting and humble approach, businesses may be able to stand out that much more in a crowded marketplace. This shift not only respects the audience but also has the potential to create deeper, more meaningful connections with exhausted audiences that could be ready for a different tone, tactic and temperature in marketing communication. In the world of startups and entrepreneurship, where every interaction counts, this approach to marketing communication could be the key to long-term success. By flipping the script on the traditional ask, businesses have a chance to create a more engaging, respectful, and what I believe will be ultimately a more effective marketing strategy.

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    Flipping the script. A fresher approach to marketing communicationBefore you ask them to subscribe or follow your channel, consider asking them to engage with one video, as well as sharing one reason why they might want to watch that one video. The small steps of authentic engagement can connect you to others in a big way.

    Before you ask them to subscribe or follow your channel, consider asking them to engage with one video, as well as sharing one reason why they might want to watch that one video. The small steps of authentic engagement can connect you to others in a big way.


    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.

    Weisman is the host of the brand communications and optics podcast Wait What Really OK.

    Flipping the script. A fresher approach to marketing communication

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  • Sharing vs Telling: A brand communication concept to consider

    Sharing vs Telling: A brand communication concept to consider

    Sharing vs Telling: A brand communication concept


    In the fast and often linear motion of brand communication, a subtle yet powerful distinction can go unnoticed: the difference between telling a story and sharing one.

    As a brand communication and optic strategist, I’ve observed countless businesses fall into the trap of one-sided intention style storytelling, missing out on the true potential of their message and its reach.


    are you network messaging or network marketingThe “Yell, Tell, Sell” Trap

    Many brands today find themselves caught in what I call the “yell, tell, sell” cycle.

    This approach is characterized by: Loud, attention-grabbing tactics One way intention style communication A focus on immediate sales rather than relationship building

    While this method might seem effective in the short term, it often fails to create lasting connections with audiences and often times is used by those with less authenticity and authority as a crutch to push and even at times deceive.


    Sharing vs Telling: A Power in Sharing

    Sharing, on the other hand, can involve a more nuanced and empathetic approach to brand communication as a whole.

    When we choose to share in our messaging, we may be that much more able to: Consider an audience’s perspective Acknowledge potential negative connotations or assumptions Create a more humble space for dialogue and interpretation

    I believe this approach requires taking two humble steps back and asking ourselves, “How can I share my message in a way that resonates with my audience, while also being open to their perceptions, assumptions, comparisons and even negative connotations?”


    Understanding Perceptions

    One of the key elements in effective and humble brand communication is recognizing that perceptions may differ from intentions. Your audience brings their own experiences, biases, and assumptions to every interaction with your brand. By acknowledging this, you may be able to: Craft more inclusive messaging and engaging communication tactics. Address potential misconceptions proactively Create a more welcoming brand environment


    Expanding Your Reach

    If you choose to shift from telling to sharing in your brand communication and optics, it can open up new possibilities for stronger connections.

    This approach can allow for: Reaching a wider audience Building stronger, more authentic relationships Encouraging engagement and genuine feedback

    By considering your brand communication in a sharing way, you can demonstrate respect for your audience’s intelligence and autonomy, which may lead to increased trust and loyalty. Not to mention standing out from so many that just yell, tell and sell their story in a linear and almost arrogant one sided way.


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    Implementing a Sharing vs Telling Approach

    To transition from telling to sharing in your brand communication: Consider listening actively to your audience as well as who they listen to. Apply a discovery for your brand to look at the perception optics. Be transparent about your brand and hold yourself and the brand accountable. Invite dialogue and understand not everyone will get it or like it.

    Effective brand communication is not about dominating the conversation, but more about fostering a meaningful exchange of ideas and experiences while working to show that respect to an audience that may have felt they have heard or seen it all before.


    The difference between telling and sharing a story may seem subtle, but its impact on your brand’s success can be profound. By embracing a sharing mindset, you may create new opportunities for deeper connections, broader reach, more authentic engagement with your audience as well as a greater understanding of your brand.

    So, the next time you’re crafting your brand message, consider asking yourself: “Am I telling, or am I sharing?”


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    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.

    Weisman is the host of the brand communications and optics podcast Wait What Really OK.

    Sharing vs Telling: A brand communication concept to consider.

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  • Secure Your TikTok Experience: A Two-Phone Strategy

    Secure Your TikTok Experience: A Two-Phone Strategy for Enhanced Privacy and Security.

    Are you considering joining the TikTok craze but concerned about TikTok privacy and TikTok security?

    Here’s a clever solution that might put your mind at ease: using a dedicated second phone for TikTok, also known as the two-phone strategy.

     

    Why Consider a Second Phone for Secure TikTok Usage? TikTok, like many social media apps, has extensive TikTok data access on your device, often extending beyond the app itself. By using a separate phone exclusively for TikTok, you can significantly reduce potential privacy and security risks, enhancing your overall digital safety.

    The “Tik Tok Toe” Approach: How to Use TikTok Safely Think of this strategy as dipping your toe in the water. You test out TikTok while avoiding many of the associated privacy concerns. Here’s how to implement this approach and protect personal information on TikTok:

    Get a second phone: This could be an inexpensive burner phone for social media or an old device you’re not using.

    Create a dedicated email: Set up a new, free email account as a separate email for TikTok. Don’t link it to any of your other accounts or personal information.

    Install only TikTok and an email app: Keep this phone free from other apps and avoid general web browsing on it to minimize data exposure on TikTok.

    Transfer videos safely: For secure video transfer for TikTok, if you need to upload a video from your primary phone, send it to your new TikTok-specific email, then access it from the dedicated TikTok phone.

    Benefits of This Approach: TikTok Privacy Protection Tips Clear separation between your personal data and TikTok

    Reduced risk of data tracking across your digital life

    Enhanced control over what information TikTok can access

    Is It Worth the Investment in Data Protection? While purchasing a second phone might seem like an extra expense, consider it an investment in your digital security and peace of mind. The protection it offers could be invaluable in the long run. We still have no idea what can happen with the data that has already been accessed by TikTok for so many users. This is a better safe than sorry scenario.

    Conclusion: Balancing TikTok Engagement and Privacy If you’ve held off on joining TikTok due to privacy concerns, this two-phone strategy offers a way to test, try, and explore the platform and its reach while maintaining a strong boundary around your personal information. It’s an extra step, but one that could provide significant protection in our increasingly dangerous digital world.

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    Coda: Consider that when it comes to TikTok privacy and TikTok security, it’s always better to be proactive than reactive. By implementing these TikTok privacy protection tips, you have a better chance of enjoying the platform while keeping more of your personal data secure.

    While it might seem like a lot, this is a great approach to protecting yourself, your information and allowing you the opportunity to play with TikTok while avoiding what many others have given up to date with their data, information and privacy.


    As mentioned before, consider it an investment in privacy, protection and preparedness. This can serve you in the moment, but also down the line for what ever will come with TikTok.


    Secure Your TikTok Experience: A Two-Phone Strategy for Enhanced Privacy and Security


    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.

    Weisman is the host of the brand communications and optics podcast Wait What Really OK.

    YouTube: @lorenweismanvideos Secure Your TikTok Experience: A Two-Phone Strategy for Enhanced Privacy and Security

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  • Updated Bio, Brand and Background Blog.

    Updated Bio, Brand and Background Blog for Loren Weisman

    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.


    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist focused on building truthful, transparent messaging and optics foundations so authoritative experts and organizations can stand out authentically in competitive landscapes. His methodology centers on strategic blueprinting before marketing, aligning brand strategy, messaging refinement, communication optimization, crisis communication and optics, and digital media/marketing strategy to create clear, uniform, and effective presence. His background includes participation on 700+ albums as a drummer and producer, TV production credits with ABC, NBC, FOX, CBS, and TLC, and authorship of Music Business for Dummies and The Artist’s Guide to Success in the Music Business.


    With a keen eye, ear and nose for detail as well as a passion for transparency, Loren is able to help authentic and authoritative businesses and individuals build robust brand and communication foundations that resonate in truth, tact and trajectory.

    Loren’s approach is rooted in strategic blueprinting across various fields including:

    Brand development Communication optimization Organizational alignment Messaging refinement Marketing strategy And Ethical considerations

    His methodology focuses on highlighting genuine expertise rather than manufactured hype, ensuring that a client, their brand, service and or product has the ability to stand out authentically in today’s competitive and oversaturated landscape.


    Loren’s comprehensive strategy encompasses: Brand strategy Communication strategy Crisis communication Optics strategy Digital strategy Development strategy Media strategy Marketing strategy

    By aligning and amplifying all these elements on a sound unison foundation, Loren and a client can create a cohesive and impactful presence for his clients.


    Loren works exclusively with established experts who possess genuine authority in their fields or those that have the knowledge, experience and foundation but might lack the desired brand or presence at the moment. His goal is to help these individuals and businesses distinguish themselves both online and offline through clear, honest, transparent, and uniform messaging.

    With Loren’s guidance, clients can expect a foundational clean, clear and concise strategy that aligns their messaging, optics, content, and overall presence to elicit the desired response from their audience. His focus on truth and respect in branding and communication ensures that clients’ expertise shines through authentically, setting them apart in their respective industries from those only making claims or promoting empty hype.

    In the end, Growing, grafting and branching a brand with a clear and transparent foundation that aligns its messaging, optics, content, communication, perceptions and presence, can offer the greatest chance for a true authority to be seen today.



    Weisman has been a part of 700+ albums as a drummer and music producer.

    Loren also maintains TV productions credits for three major networks as well as serving as a media consultant for many businesses in and out of the arts and entertainment fields.

    Weisman got to see an array of the ins, outs, ups and downs of music, which he shared in “The Artists Guide to Success in the Music Business” (Greenleaf Book Group) and “Music Business for Dummies” (Wiley & Sons).

    Shifting to TV production as well as authoring a few books on the music business, Loren gravitated toward the strategic production elements as much as he did the psychological ones as continued a path leading him in the direction of leaving entertainment and becoming a strategist.

    Some of Loren’s Influences

    Loren Weisman‘s speaking and talks focus on authentic and authoritative messaging strategies, marketing perceptions, audience optics and humble personalized engagement methods.


    Some Brand Communications and  Optics Strategist Credits:

    700+ album Credits across major and independent labels.

    Production credits for ABC, NBC, FOX, CBS, TLC and more

    3 books with international distribution.

    He is also the host of the Brand Communications and Optics Podcast Wait What Really OK

    As well as being a Brand Communications and Optics strategist, Weisman also has served as a keynote speaker that has spoken around the country.


    Brand Communications and Optics Strategist Loren Weisman is also the host of the podcast; Wait What Really OK.


    About Loren: Updated Bio, Brand and Background Blog.brand communications and optics strategist loren weisman


    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.

    Weisman is the host of the brand communications and optics podcast Wait What Really OK.

    Updated Bio, Brand and Background Blog.

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  • Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman on success books.

    Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman on success books. Looking at the issues, the contradictions, the over saturation, the scams and even some of the good that come from this genre that is pumping out new books everyday. Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman on Success Books


    S7.E3.N116 Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman on success books….

    take a deep dive in to a world of literature where the quantity outweighs the quality and where even the term author has seen a reduction in authority.

    Success is a very personal and at the same time very subjective term. It is also an addictive one. So many have chased the ideas of success through motivation, inspiration and any success story that can allow someone to emulate or copy it for the same result or better.

    One of the problems is that every path to success has many different factors and metrics to it. Many also do not fully understand the extent or involvement of others that allowed that success to happen too. Is their message clear and honed in? Is your message clear too?


    Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman digs into the books further… inviting people to double check and vet the authors…

    And one of the biggest problems is the author of the success book that has had no success whatsoever. They took the business guy courses, the life coaching courses and downloaded a pre written success book, added a few stories and published it as their own.

    Look a little closer before buying is the point.


    It is the responsibility of the reader or the potential reader to vet the material, the stories, the facts and the validity. Still, so many claims, so many promises, so many saying what others want to hear… the business of writing business success books has become an amazing stream to draw revenue from. But at the same time, it is a dried up well when it comes to the morals, authority and authenticity of what is being shared ethically and professionally.


    Season 7. Episode 3. Number 116 of the Wait What Really OK Podcast is called Messaging Strategist Loren Weisman on Success Books.

    Text over red cloud background* Podcast Listening Links: Pandora Amazon Music iHeart Apple Podcasts Spotify Spreaker TuneIn Castbox Podcast Addict * Messaging and Optics Podcast Music Credits 1: Opening Theme Song “Fully Licensed Wait What Really Ok Theme Song” by RKVC. Copyright 2016 eMbloh Music (ASCAP)/ Cienzo Music (BMI). Administered by Ass Backwards Music (ASCAP)/Bass Ackwards Music (BMI) RKVC Website * Messaging and Optics Podcast Music Credits 2: Closing Theme Song “News and Information Podcast Percussion Outro” by Doug Hinrichs. Copyright 2016 Dig And Be Dug Music (BMI). Administered by Bass Ackwards Music (BMI). Doug Hinrichs Website


    Loren Weisman is a Brand Communications and Optics Strategist who specializes in illuminating authoritative intelligence and amplifying authentic experts.

    Weisman is the host of the brand communications and optics podcast Wait What Really OK.

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